My bestfriend isn't speakin to me. was i wrong?

ok well this is wat happened..she had albums on myspace one of me n her, n one of her n her ex. she said she was deleting the one wit the ex. when i went to her page she deleted mine to. but she made an album with everybody. there were like 20 pics in the album. mostly all of him n her, and 2 of me, so i asked her about it and we got into an argument (like always) and she accusing me of thinking she stole my earrings (cuz she was over on Christ m) and i stated to her that i would never accuse a friend of stealing from me. so i told her this is why i don't state how i feel bout our friendship to you. and she said ok well don't talk to me. she hasn't spoke to me since monday night around 9:30, do u think i was in the wrong or she was? i feel like she had no reason to get mad at me. she said i was judging our friendship on myspace when i so wasn't. i jus wanted to ask her why she deleted it? and today is saturday n we haven't spoke in 5days, should i im her or send her a message stating how i feel?